STUPID THINGS A WIFE CAN DO TO MESS UP HER MARRIAGE:

1) DARING HER HUSBAND TO BEAT HER:

You block the door
way, and then dare him to beat you and see what will happen.
Lots of women have done this in the past and they end up
regretting it. It is unwise to do this.

2) DARING HER HUSBAND TO SLEEP WITH ANOTHER
WOMAN: You will be making a major mistake if you dare your
husband to sleep with another woman"You may live to regret
it.

3) NEGLECTING TO DRESS RIGHTLY BECAUSE SHE IS
MARRIED: “I am married, who is looking at me” That was the
defense of one of My neighbour when she was confronted for
the reason why she dressed so shabbily. It is the mistake of
most careless married women and it’s a major mistake you
can make.

4) DENYING HER HUSBAND SEX REGULARLY: You are a
career woman; you feel sex in marriage is secondary, you
deny your husband your body regularly, so he is sexually
starved and intimacy famished. His secretary, colleagues, and
girls at work are begging him to come but you padlock
your skirt. "I can see danger signal.

5) LEAVING HER HUSBAND FOR HER FRIEND TO CATER FOR:
“My friend please be my eye as I travelled for this one week,
help cater for my husband and my little kids” That was Mrs
Udoka when she made the journey she will later regret all
her life. By the time she came back her friend had really
helped her by sleeping with her husband. "She later eloped
with the man, leaving her own husband and two children. It is
very stupid to commit your husband into the hands of your
beautiful and very active but Godless friend.

6) LEAVING HER HUSBAND IN THE HAND OF HER HOUSE
MAID: Your maid is the one that cooks, cleans the house, and
cares for the children and your husband. You suddenly
become a lazy bone since the arrival of the maid, all you do is
to shout and back orders, nobody will snatch your husband(haa Erin elami) 
you are the one graciously giving him to those that
need him.

7) EMPLOYING FULLY GROWN, RED BLOODED LADY AS A
MAID: She is fully grown, well-endowed in the back and very
tantalizing in the front, dresses like an actress, cat walks like a
model and that is your own house maid? What a mistake!

8)EMPLOYING HOUSE HELPER THAT IS MORE BEAUTIFUL
THAN HER:

Employing a house maids more beautiful than you
is a major technical mistake most women make. "In the
process many of them used their money to employ a rival for
themselves. "Don’t be foolish when getting a maid.

9) USING ANALOG BRAIN TO LIVE WITH A DIGITAL
HUSBAND:

Your husband is growing; you are sitting down at
home eating. "He is dressing like a guy with jeans and face
cap, you are celebrating the fact that you are a married
woman. Your husband is on twitter, facebook, whatshap, skype
etc; the only thing you know about phone is to receive and
make call. "Your husband is talking about stock market;
you only talk about tomato market. "He is talking about
Politics in Naija, you are talking about your Neighbors life
style.

10) FAILING TO COMMIT HER FAMILY INTO THE HANDS OF
GOD:

A wife won’t do well if she fails to commit her family
into the hands of God regularly. "Don’t make this mistake, be
prayerful, hand over your family to God. May you never labor in
vain!

11) FIGHTING HER MOTHER-IN-LAW:

You may fight your
Mother-in-law dirty and think you can win, you will end up
losing. Her son and herself have been friends and lovers for
years; may be before you were born. She was the first ‘wife’ of
your husband and also the first ‘girlfriend’. Her son cannot
divorce her and she is more experienced than you in
matrimonial battles, in fact she is a veteran of many conflicts

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12) TELLING HER FRIENDS ABOUT HER SEX LIFE:

When you tell your friend about your sex life she can size you up and
know whether your husband is hot or not, whether he is
sexually fulfilled or not. She can even know your husband “turn
on” and use it against him and grab your husband. Most
women have carelessly lost their husband as they complain to
their friends “my husband is too demanding, he
does not know anything but sex, I’m not a horse, I can’t kill
myself” A friend will pick information like this and cover things
up where you’ve been failing.

13) REPORTING HER HUSBAND TO HIS MUM: It looks
beautiful to report your husband to his Mum, but the end result
will end up hurting you. "Most mothers will support their sons
any day; children are always right before their Mothers. "Seek
counsel in the right quarters, never report your husband to his
Mum.

14) LETTING CHILDREN TAKE THE PLACE OF THEIR
HUSBANDS:

Many wives do abandon their husbands, denying
them of love, care and attention as soon as babies begin to
arrive. To sleep in bed, they put the Baby between themselves
and their husband, making the man to feel lost in his own
house.

15) USING SEX WRONGLY:

Sex is supposed to bind you
together, it supposed to create intimacy and love but in many
homes it is the bone of contention.
Some women do turn sex to a tool of manipulation; some use
it for trade by barter. Some wives will suddenly become
commanders at home when their husbands touch them for
Sex, ordering the man around, “go and off the Fan” “go and lock the gate” “go and check whether our children are Sleeping” this is very bad.
Some wives sleep like log of wood in bed while some even
wear jean knickers to bed.
If you continue like this you will hurt your marriage
deeply and you may destroy your future also.